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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 00:54

How does one succeed in life?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

What I need from you?

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Why won't biden give a last minute deferred action TO ALL undocumented immigrants so Trump can't deport them? Obama issued DACA, why can't Biden issue something similar that protects ALL undocumented immigrants from deportation?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Ask yourself:

Is the Chinese economy currently collapsing? If not, what could potentially cause it to collapse?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

What are 5 ways that can be done by the community to improve the public transport system?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Is the saying "nice guys finish last" true? Can good intentions always lead to positive outcomes?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Could humans be selectively bred, like dogs, to create 2 subspecies that can no longer have offspring? Do I not understand selective breeding properly? Im not worried about the moral implications, just the science please.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Does not procrastinate.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

How can the citizens of Russia accept the enormous difference between people? The richest 500 Russians own more than the poorest 99.8% of the entire Russian population combined. Why don't we see any protests?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Are there any guys, crossdressers, or transgender girls here who wear tampons?

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Does the Hamas charter specifically call for the death of all Jews and the destruction of Israel?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Hangs out with loser friends.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

If Donald Trump is so evil and Joe Biden is so good why is Trump the one selflessly providing Bibles for the needy while Biden doesn't? Why doesn't Biden care for America's spiritually needy people as much as Trump?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Why does my best friend call me ugly and act like she’s joking, but today she looked at me and said “I wouldn’t lie to you”? What should I say back to her?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

That's it for today.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0: